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Advice 11 |
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In the contemplation of marriage, Friends should seek
divine guidance. Marriage is a life-long union of spiritual as
well as temporal concerns and presents considerations of vital
importance. When two persons are united in their religious
faith, they are likely to find not only a firmer bond of union but
also greater strength in fulfilling all of life's undertakings.
Therefore, Friends contemplating marriage should early acquaint
their families and meetings with their intentions, seeking their
approval, that they may avoid the far-reaching consequences
of hasty and ill-considered action. It is tenderly recommended
that
Friends keep to the simple and solemn form of our
marriage ceremony.
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Advice and Queries
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Friends' business meetings are meetings for worship with
a concern for business. When there seems to be disagreement,
a free expression of all opinions should be encouraged.
Those who speak in meetings for business are advised not to be
unduly persistent in advocacy or opposition, but, after having
fully expressed their views, to recognize the generally expressed
sense of the meeting. A deep and seeking silence can help to
reconcile seemingly opposing points of view. Meetings should be
conducted in the spirit of wisdom, forbearance, and love.
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